It is ‘that’ time of year again. Assignees and their families are embarking on new international moves, others returning after long summer breaks. Settling and adjusting to new routines, schools and jobs can be exciting and exhilarating on the one hand, and if we’re honest, pretty exhausting on the other.
This week on the Thriving Abroad Podcast I talk to Dr Tami Nelson and Dr Kelli Jones Sanness from Therapy Solutions Abroad, our subject is mental well-being and it is a conversation that is definitely worth your time.
The truth is everyone reacts differently to change and transition. Good days filled with excitement and awe at our new experience can be replaced by ones where it can all feel too much. Such is the roller coaster ride of international relocation – it is important to remember it is all a part of the adjustment process:
‘It is natural to feel distress and under some pressure from this huge move.’
As you settle into new routines now is a good time to reflect on your schedule and consider your personal sense of well-being.
A research report by Talking Talent highlighted that in the UK 71% of workers have experienced burnout at least once in their working lives, an alarming statistic and one that underlined for me the importance of being proactive and taking care of oneself as an expat.
Organisations can also help by thinking about the relocation pressure points for assignee’s and their families and providing appropriate and timely support.
So, in the spirit of well-being I encourage you to put your feet up and listen to the advice of Tami and Kelli as we talk about the issue of expat stress and mental well-being.
We encourage you to ‘recognise it is a natural experience to feel distress and under some pressure – for a huge move this is a normal experience’.
During the conversation we talk about:
- How stress varies from person to person, we are all different after all!
- What can contribute to a sense of overwhelm and distress.
- The importance of setting realistic expectations both before and during an international relocation.
- The symptoms to look out for that may indicate unhealthy levels of stress.
- Help – and where to find it.
- How to help yourself including a tip – independence is not always a good thing.
‘If you take care of yourself you have the ability to take care of others. If you’re lacking in that then you’re not going to be able to give anything to anyone else’
To learn more about Tami and Kelli visit their website HERE
Tami and Kelly have also shared links to a number of articles they have published recently:
- The Therapy Solutions Abroad blog
- Taking care of your mental health overseas
- On the Road to Resilience: Taking a Path Toward a More Balanced Future